Sunday, March 2, 2014

Gaining Respect-Tuesday, February 25th


                                                    





            I feel like every time I am in class, three hours goes by so fast. I walk in always a few minutes before 10 AM and leave right before 1 PM feeling like only an hour has passed. So much goes on in that amount of time. The highlights of this week’s class (Tuesday, February 25th) included a new observation guideline and the parent panel.
              The new observation guideline was much different than the one we had been previously using. I went to two different classrooms with Jean. The first, which was actually the same classroom we went to a few weeks ago, was an ESL Biology class. We had discussed who was going to be observing the teacher or student two before entering the class and then chose student one, who we both observed, after settling into the class. This guideline was interesting because I was able to focus on two people in the entire classroom for twenty minutes. The teacher spent most of this time managing the class because the students wouldn’t settle down in their seats or stay quiet. One of the only students who behaved and was taking notes on what the teacher was trying to teach was a new student who was having his first day at CF high school. I wonder how long this has been happening in this particular classroom and what else this teacher does for classroom management. It also makes me think how I would handle this type of situation and honestly at this point, I don’t know. It definitely made me realize that I need to learn some classroom management techniques that will make it likely that situations like this one won’t occur often in my classroom someday. I understand it will at some points but I would hope it doesn’t happen too often. 
            The panel that came to speak to us this week was the parent panel. I really enjoy listening to the different panels because it’s very interesting getting to hear different points of view with hopes that I will benefit in the future from it. It seemed to me that the parents want respect from all teachers. They also want the teachers to respect their children. If a teacher gives their children respect then they gain the respect of the parent. Also, a huge point the parents made was that they want teachers to communicate with them. This means they want to receive phone calls not only when their children are not doing well, but also when they are doing well. This acknowledgement goes a long way and in my own experiences in school, is not something that happens often. As said in class, saying this is something that will make me an exceptional teacher and is something to think about is not enough. I’ve been thinking about what I will do to make sure this happens. So far I’ve brainstormed that I will make it a goal to call a set number of parents per week. This number will probably vary as I begin teaching but let’s say I want to call three parents per week. After each day, or each class depending on the situation I will need to write down very BRIEF notes into a notebook/agenda/etc. Toward the end of the week (Thursday) I will make the phone calls. If this is something that will go a long way in my teaching career and I will gain the respect of my student’s parents then I really will make it a goal to do this in the future. 

4 comments:

  1. I think you focused on something that we have been hearing a lot this semester, respect. Parents want it, students want it, teachers want it... but how does this happen? I would like to imagine that everyone is automatically respecting each other, but that is not always the case. It seems like something we really need to stay aware of is how we talk and treat EVERYONE. No matter who we are talking to or even reprimanding, we need to give the respect that is due. We also need to make sure that we are respectful in different situations that the students/parents/fellow teachers might be witnessing. For example, I had a professor last semester who was dealing with a difficult situation. She had been calling AAA to tow her car for hours and they didn't understand that her car was in a different place than her cell phones zip code. (Her car was at home in Mass. but they kept picking up the RI zip code). Our entire class was present and she was taking a minute to try and get her car situation fixed. She was extremely calm and polite to every person she talked to (they transferred her a large number of times) and we could all see how annoying the situation was. The amount of respect she had for herself, the people at AAA and for our class was visible through her phone interactions. It would have been very easy to flip out and get angry, but she kept her cool. We have to start consciously reacting in "teacher" ways to every situation that is put in front of us. If we keep practicing patience and respect, it will be second nature when we are hired. Respect in difficult situation will go a long way!

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  2. Tiffany, the area I'm most apprehensive with is classroom management as well. This sets the whole tone of the classroom and is the deciding factor for if you will be an effective teacher. I also feel that class flies by way too fast and that there is so much to take in. sometimes I leave CF feeling very overwhelmed by all that went on in the day.

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  3. Tiffany,
    It was really frustrating to see the classroom management issues in the first class we visited. I'm not sure how long that has been going on, but I feel like the last time we visited that class (when the students had to read us their sentences on food webs) that it was under much better control and everyone was more engaged. I'm not sure which day is the more accurate picture of the class, but I hope that we'll have another opportunity to observe them. I'm also curious about what the new student thought of that classroom!

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  4. I too really like the idea of making brief phone calls to parents. I feel as though most parents only hear from teachers when things are going wrong. It should not be this way. I am not a parent but as a kid my mother would get negative phone calls (sadly pretty often). It totally overshadowed the positives of my education at a time when my school life was not great. Positive phone calls can do wonders for the attitudes of parents and students from what it sounds like. Negative calls will have to be made I'm sure, but I think it would be a good idea to make a point of making good calls over bad ones.

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